How to remove yourself from ThatsThem.
A real, working guide. No fluff, no scare tactics. ThatsThem is a reverse-phone/reverse-email lookup.
The short version
Submit removal form per record. Each record (phone, email, address) requires a separate submission if duplicates exist.
Step-by-step
- Go to the opt-out page: https://thatsthem.com/optout
- Find your record. ThatsThem indexes by name, address, and phone. Try variants — maiden name, middle initial, former address — if your first search misses.
- Submit the removal request. Submit removal form per record. Each record (phone, email, address) requires a separate submission if duplicates exist.
- Complete the CAPTCHA. Most automated removal services cannot bypass this step — they use human operators. You will need to solve it yourself.
- Wait the processing time. 5 minutes per record.
- Verify removal. Search yourself on ThatsThem after the processing window. If you still appear, the request may have failed silently — resubmit.
What to watch for
ThatsThem is a reverse-phone/reverse-email lookup. Check all your phone numbers and emails individually.
Why this matters
ThatsThem is one of 97+ data brokers actively publishing personal information about US adults. Most people are listed across 50 to 100 brokers. Removing yourself from one site is a meaningful start — but the information is repeatedly re-indexed from public records, voter rolls, and other brokers. Sustained suppression requires repeating the process every 60 to 90 days.
The honest tradeoff
You can do this yourself in 10–15 minutes per broker. Across 97 brokers, that's roughly 20 hours of work, repeated quarterly — about 80 hours per year. Most people do the first few removals, then stop.
The alternative is an automated service. Yew is one — built specifically for high-net-worth individuals and families who value being unfindable.
Or let Yew handle this — and 96 others.
Yew is an autonomous privacy agent that removes you from ThatsThem and 96 other data brokers — and re-runs the entire sequence every quarter, forever. Built for people who would rather not be findable.
Begin intake → Eight minutes to onboard. The first removal runs the same day.